11 Actions That Help You Connect With More People

Lessons from Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends & Influence People”

Alec Zaffiro
3 min readDec 20, 2018

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1.) Become genuinely interested in others. The average person thinks this: “If I want to win people over, I must show them how great I am and reveal all my wonderful qualities / achievements!” Wrong. People primarily care about themselves, what they know, and what they like…

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Alec Zaffiro

I write to think and organize my ideas. I like psychology, philosophy, and self-improvement—em dashes are my specialty. Not an expert.*