I wouldn’t be too hard on yourself about being “unapproachable.”

For one, men, in general, are less approachable than women. So that might explain the ice skating thing. Two, it’s fairly uncommon for a stranger to randomly spark up a conversation with another stranger. Maybe because of the digital age we live in.

But I wouldn’t ostracize yourself and feed into that narrative. Good that you’re aware of your natural disposition though.