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Perfectly United in Mind and Thought

Alec Zaffiro
3 min readJul 20, 2021

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I think about a football team. Or a household. “United in mind and thought” means everyone upholding one purpose. It sounds great, in theory, but it’s much more cumbersome to execute and replicate — mainly because there are endless ends to value and we are limited.

A football team and household operate in very different terms. Their purpose and “oneness” look different. However, they point in the same direction. Both require the individual to compromise and make sacrifices for the whole. Obviously. A father must work to provide for the family. A quarterback must prepare psychically and mentally to contribute to the team. A child’s contribution to the family might be one of omission (e.g. no misbehavior causing trouble for the rest). Ultimately, contributing to the purpose of the group requires individual responsibility and suffering.

“Perfectly united in mind and thought.”

It’s a wonderful aim, but difficult to achieve. One reason being it’s easy to identify and determine the group purpose, but difficult to make sense of each member’s duty and role.

Here’s an example: a defensive back on a football team has obvious reason to be united in mind and thought — he wants to help the team win football games. Again, an easy ideal for the group, but a unique and obscure task for the individual. How does he…

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Alec Zaffiro
Alec Zaffiro

Written by Alec Zaffiro

I write to think and organize my ideas. I like psychology, philosophy, and self-improvement—em dashes are my specialty. Not an expert.*

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